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Nature

Nature.

Nature

A little rain
A flake of snow
Soothing breeze
What a way to go.
Close your eyes and smell the nature.
Inhale the earth
And taste the ocean!
Sarah Gul

Who moved my cheese?

Today I read a very interesting book called ” WHO MOVED MY CHEESE” It’s funny how we sometimes need books to bring back the sense of situations we are gifted by nature.
The book talks about how to move on with the occurring changing situations in our lives. It says that if we prepare our minds for changes before hand, then we wouldn’t be at a shock when someone actually does move our cheese!  Meaning, we should focus more on what we need at the moment rather than complaining about what we have lost. Change is good, change is a system of nature. Everything which comes has to go, what matters is how you move on to the next level of life after clearing the previous level!
Some people are stubborn gorillas and just dont accept changes, instead they sit down like a big potato waiting for a fairy to bring back their piece of lost cheese.
When I was connecting myself to this book, for a moment I questioned myself; ”Do I even want a new cheese in my life?” I was puzzled for a while, but then I got my answer! The answer was yes! A mice cannot live without cheese, therefore new cheese is not a want but a need!

Happily me

It feels great to sometimes realize what you have rather than what you have lost…lost things were never yours, you had  found them while walking home or to the park….you thought they were God’s gift, but the were actually just lost things..qlost people…lost places which became the intersection for your final destination……and the things which are to be yours forever are within you, and can never leave you..unless ofcourse if THE LORD wishes….
So smile at any place, anytime, in any condition, because pain and happiness are both blessings of ALLAH..pain strengths you, and tAkes you to the reality of life….and Happiness just makes you a beautiful loving human you are suppose to be……:-)

Perfection unlimited

Nothing in this world is perfect….perfection is all about satisfaction..some people get satisfied with less effort, and that’s the point of perfection for them….and some people are only satisfied when they put in loads of effort to reach their point of perfection….and then there are those people who never get satisfied because they look for ‘The Perfection’ which is very far off from humanity…if any human or their actions were perfect, then do you really believe they’d be known as human?
So relax,,take a deep breath! Learn to be satisfied with YOUR best efforts, not the literal BEST EFFORTS!
Peace

My Dreams`

My Dreams

If dreams aren’t true

Then why do I feel you-

If dreams aren’t colorful

Then how are they so beautiful-

If dreams can’t be caught

Then how are they bought-

If dreams fly away

Then why do I stay-

If dreams only come while I sleep

Then which world is it where I walk, twirl and leap-

                                                                        Sarah`Gul

Yin-Yang

I look around myself and find many people.  Basically, my family: P I see my sisters, sweet-humble-modest& well mannered.  Then I look a little further at my brother, aggressive-particular-short tempered & self oriented.  Let’s go into the wider branches of the tree, and that’s the same pattern I see… wow that rhymes!

Why are men in our society so different than women?  Well, that’s because they are raised differently.  When boys are young, they are spoiled.  Parents focus more of their daughter’s upbringing than they do on their son.  So the fact it, there is not a lot of parenting done with the upbringing of a boy.  He discovers himself by himself, and creates his own rules and follows them upon his own wish!   Because unfortunately, they are left alone to grow up on their own. This is what gets the system out of balance!

Parents need to focus on their son’s upbringing as well; they need to guide him; show him right from wrong just the way do it for their daughters.  Since a girl is 14, she is being taught everyday how to behave with others; how to respects others; all of this is done for an intention that she will make a perfect wife, daughter-in-law, and of course a mother.  I don’t object any of this, in a fact, this is what I will teach my daughters-but how can we only focus on raising good daughters?  I want parents to teach their son from a young age as well, teach them manners, and teach them how to behave with their in-laws- with his wife- with his children.  Teach them to be like the most beautiful, perfect man- Prophet Mohammad SallAllahOAliahiWassalam.  Be understanding like Him, soft, warm, and humble.  Let me share a story of Him, and how He treated his wives, SallAllahOAliahiWassalam.

Once during a journey, Saffiyyah – the wife of Allah’s Messenger (may Allah be pleased with her) was crying because she had be made to ride a slow camel. The Prophet SallAllahOAliahiWassalam didn’t tell her she was being unreasonable. Instead, he wiped her tears, comforted her, and even tried to find her another camel for her.

Men & women both complete this world and create a mutual balance between black and white-like the Yin-Yang.

We let our boys grow wild on their own, and they become bull dogs and wander the streets.  Then we protect our daughters from the bull dogs other parents have raised.  If you raise good sons,   you won’t have to stress about your daughters being unsafe or going into the wrong hands.

I previously designed posters for this topic as well, I will post them when my network gets into its senses. 🙂

I’m guilty

Oh my beloved Nabi Mohammad SallallahoAlaiheWassalam. I am guilty….I am guilty… They have humiliated you and I didn’t do anything…. They misguided others of you, and I didn’t do anything..I didn’t burn anything like others…. I didn’t march like them…I didn’t recite a naat…I didn’t write a speech… I only trumbled few tears… I only asked Allah to help… Help me… Help me with it..I dont know what to do….I I cant be violent and take revenge, that’s not what the Nabi SallallahoAlaiheWassalam taught me.. I cant curse or say bad things, these hate speech was disliked by Him…I can’t upload pictures of their flags burning because your beloved Nabi SallallahoAlaiheWassalam always were a living picture of love and peace…what should I do to stop them from hurting Him…humiliating Him…. What pleasure do these people get from doing such corrupted actions against the symbol of love and the king of Kingdom-of-Peace……I raise my hands ay this time of night and ask you to give these people what they deserve and show others to behave otherwise!

Confused gorilla

Some people are easy, uniform, and can be easily understood but most people are extremely difficult to understand…. You can never figure them out… One minute they are sugar and next minute they are sour tarts… I feel like Sherlock Holmes around them… I find myself thinking and questing what could be going on in their mind, how would they react to my sayings… Or how will they behave if I speak my mind…. And then I know some individuals who are very confident and composed but it’s very difficult for them to make an eye contact while talking…. Wow….sometimes it’s easy to confuse people…even the big king gorilla!
If anyone has any opinion on how to understand such people, then please share!